Apparently, the Fotek SSRs can be modified to work by bypassing a resistor on the positive control input, but I haven't attempted that yet.
A work around with an opto-isolator, a transistor, and a couple of resistors is easy enough to implement as long as one has 5V or greater power available.
Even so, an endorsement of an alternative solid state relay that works reliably at 3.3V and is similar in price to the Foteks on EBay (~$3.50 US) would be welcome. There are Omron based modules (ie. this one) that look like they might work.